advise for daughter who resigned after 3rd round

[katydidKD]

Originally Posted by DubaiSis

I'd love to see a system where the chapters are advised that these girls have been cut completely. Can you reconsider inviting them again? If she wasn't actually cut, but just not high enough on the list, maybe a chapter or two would make an exception. Of course this would have to be done without the knowledge of the rushee, and maybe would open an ugly can of worms, but maybe it would keep a handful of hearts from being broken. I can see a chapter inviting back 5 more girls, spread out over all of their parties, and nobody knows the difference. What would be interesting to see is if that girl, cut completely, might suddenly have a full schedule because everyone from her previous days says, sure, we'd love to have her again.
Am I being ridiculous? (I mean about this particular topic. I know I'm ridiculous otherwise)

No you are not being ridiculous, Panhellenic at my school did this, I was actually surprised it isn't common at other schools.

[AlphaFrog]

Threads like this are no fun when the OP doesn't come back several times to complain what big meanies we are.

[Titchou]

Originally Posted by katydidKD

No you are not being ridiculous, Panhellenic at my school did this, I was actually surprised it isn't common at other schools.

All groups have the option of going back and inviting someone they released earlier. And they all usually know who these women are. It's not a big deal anywhere I've worked with and I'm talking mostly SEC and southern schools.