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Originally Posted by Gretchen W
I started a thread a few months ago about a guy, well...tool bag who I was dating for 7 months during that time. Well, long story short and update, we broke up because he just wasn't moving out of his parents house. He had a great job, was doing great things in school etc. he just didn't want to get his own place. and he was lazy when it came to things that were important to me. I even thought it would be cheaper for us to move in together, but he didn't want to do that. He was like a selfish big kid.
New thread, new problem. After we broke up, I've been dating, but I keep dating the same kind of guys. Yes, I'm attracted to them, but why I keep attracting and being attracted to the same tool bag guys is what I'm struggling with. I've been dating the opposite of what I'm used to dating because I was thinking that maybe they would be different. It's weird because they're different from my previous dates/relationships, but yet, they're still tool bags like the previous guys. I'm just wondering if it's me, and what I need to do differently to meet and hopefully get serious with a really good guy. Is anyone else having this problem (meeting the right guy)? If you had this problem how did you change your situation? This really, really sucks. I'm ready to give up.
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Your standards are too high. I don't know the men in your life, but based on what you posted, it sounds like they follow the rules of the game but don't know the art of the game. Pimping. You also need to understand the difference between the good guy, the nice guy, and of course...the pimp. I'll be more than happy to elaborate and bring some light to this if you're not grasping what I mean. Once you get an understanding of this, it will help you become successful and eliminate the problem you are having.
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