Urban Legends About Recruitment

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Fussing? Seriously?

Let's be honest, there are things that sorority alums and members can say that if rushees say, they come off sounding like a bitch. She's stated where she's rushing and once you do that, you should probably watch what you say on here, if not everywhere.

But then again, you are right and everyone else is wrong or prejudiced or Southern or a puppet of the patriarchy, so I guess we should all just shut the fuck up.

LOL, she said nothing wrong in this thread. But oh dear, how terrible of me to express that! Had she named names or something I'd have a different view.

Oh and how very black you are too, kettle.

[lavienrose]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

LOL, she said nothing wrong in this thread. But oh dear, how terrible of me to express that! Had she named names or something I'd have a different view.

Oh and how very black you are too, kettle.

I am glad someone sees that what I said was in no way meant to sound "bitchy" and I think its kind of silly for my post to cause such a fuss. Especially for someone to go to the length to look up everything I had ever posted on here. And to barbie whatever I didn't accept her advice because it was rude and condescending. I politely declined it when I could have been as rude about it as you are. Yes I am a "PNM". But this site is anonymous. Do I think anyone from the school I'm recruiting is going to look through ALL the sophomores doing recruitment and figure out who I am? No I definitely don't. And if they do I doubt anything I've said would truly effect their opinion of me. As a moderator 33girl you give a very bad reputation to other users on this site. If anyone in this scenario has came off as a bitch it is you and I'm sorry for ever going on here to look for any advice. I'm sorry for stating things about chapters at my school that I made clear were rumors. Rumors that almost every single student at my school knows. I didn't state the chapters and if I had I would agree that I was in the wrong.

[Lady Pi]

Originally Posted by lavienrose

I am glad someone sees that what I said was in no way meant to sound "bitchy" and I think its kind of silly for my post to cause such a fuss. Especially for someone to go to the length to look up everything I had ever posted on here. And to barbie whatever I didn't accept her advice because it was rude and condescending. I politely declined it when I could have been as rude about it as you are. Yes I am a "PNM". But this site is anonymous. Do I think anyone from the school I'm recruiting is going to look through ALL the sophomores doing recruitment and figure out who I am? No I definitely don't. And if they do I doubt anything I've said would truly effect their opinion of me. As a moderator 33girl you give a very bad reputation to other users on this site. If anyone in this scenario has came off as a bitch it is you and I'm sorry for ever going on here to look for any advice. I'm sorry for stating things about chapters at my school that I made clear were rumors. Rumors that almost every single student at my school knows. I didn't state the chapters and if I had I would agree that I was in the wrong.

QFP

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by lavienrose

I am glad someone sees that what I said was in no way meant to sound "bitchy" and I think its kind of silly for my post to cause such a fuss. Especially for someone to go to the length to look up everything I had ever posted on here. And to barbie whatever I didn't accept her advice because it was rude and condescending. I politely declined it when I could have been as rude about it as you are. Yes I am a "PNM". But this site is anonymous. Do I think anyone from the school I'm recruiting is going to look through ALL the sophomores doing recruitment and figure out who I am? No I definitely don't. And if they do I doubt anything I've said would truly effect their opinion of me. As a moderator 33girl you give a very bad reputation to other users on this site. If anyone in this scenario has came off as a bitch it is you and I'm sorry for ever going on here to look for any advice. I'm sorry for stating things about chapters at my school that I made clear were rumors. Rumors that almost every single student at my school knows. I didn't state the chapters and if I had I would agree that I was in the wrong.

And you're making me regret defending you. Stop now.

This is why commenting on principle is so treacherous.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by lavienrose

I am glad someone sees that what I said was in no way meant to sound "bitchy" and I think its kind of silly for my post to cause such a fuss. Especially for someone to go to the length to look up everything I had ever posted on here. And to barbie whatever I didn't accept her advice because it was rude and condescending. I politely declined it when I could have been as rude about it as you are. Yes I am a "PNM". But this site is anonymous. Do I think anyone from the school I'm recruiting is going to look through ALL the sophomores doing recruitment and figure out who I am? No I definitely don't. And if they do I doubt anything I've said would truly effect their opinion of me. As a moderator 33girl you give a very bad reputation to other users on this site. If anyone in this scenario has came off as a bitch it is you and I'm sorry for ever going on here to look for any advice. I'm sorry for stating things about chapters at my school that I made clear were rumors. Rumors that almost every single student at my school knows. I didn't state the chapters and if I had I would agree that I was in the wrong.

I was trying to help, snookums. Sorry you just don't understand that. Yes, rumors are stupid and repeating them should not hurt you in rush...but the fact of the matter is, some PNMs have repeated rumors on here and it HAS hurt them. Many many many more people lurk on this site than actually post.

"Moderator" doesn't mean what you apparently think it means.

And regarding your bolded...yes, they might.

[als463]

Originally Posted by lavienrose

I am glad someone sees that what I said was in no way meant to sound "bitchy" and I think its kind of silly for my post to cause such a fuss. Especially for someone to go to the length to look up everything I had ever posted on here. And to barbie whatever I didn't accept her advice because it was rude and condescending. I politely declined it when I could have been as rude about it as you are. Yes I am a "PNM". But this site is anonymous. Do I think anyone from the school I'm recruiting is going to look through ALL the sophomores doing recruitment and figure out who I am? No I definitely don't. And if they do I doubt anything I've said would truly effect their opinion of me. As a moderator 33girl you give a very bad reputation to other users on this site. If anyone in this scenario has came off as a bitch it is you and I'm sorry for ever going on here to look for any advice. I'm sorry for stating things about chapters at my school that I made clear were rumors. Rumors that almost every single student at my school knows. I didn't state the chapters and if I had I would agree that I was in the wrong.

Just so you know--even though you went through and deleted all your posts, Barbie'sRush QFP'd everything so, figuring out who the sophmore (nursing is it?) student who took a bid to a sorority she didn't want and has a 3.8 GPA in college and a 3.3 from high school and is now looking to go through recruitment at the University of Kentucky, shouldn't be too hard. You might want to step away from the computer, now. Also, even though an NPC is coming to Kentucky in the fall-please take note that there are many people in the various organizations (to include people from Headquarters) that check out this site.