My chapter in Arkansas had mixers with other alum clubs plus events with husbands. We had a huge part in the active chapter's initiation ceremonies plus we were very involved in helping during rush.
So, the exception that proves the rule, huh? Unless you're willing to say that your experience is representative of your GLO's alumane members in general?
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