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I believe I've said this before on this board, but had I lived with either of my ex-husbands before marrying them, I wouldn't have divorced either of them... because I wouldn't have married them in the first place! I'm a big proponent of living together before marriage BUT under certain conditions: you can support yourself without that person, it is an arrangement that you can get out of easily (like only one of you owns the place or has the name on the lease or it's a month to month lease) and you are done with college and lived independently for at least a year. There is just too much messiness possible in college if you break up and are living with the person. Week before finals, you break up, which is hard enough, but you're stuck living in the same space anyway, etc.
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