Why did my friend stop contacting me??

[preciousjeni]

Originally Posted by jhawk2817

Like no calls, no facebook wall writing, no skype wtf?

So I have a really cool female friend who used to like text me good morning in the mornings and at least 50 more texts throughout the day and we would hang out occasionally. I know what you might be thinking, that we were maybe involved sexually or emotionally somehow but she is different. We talk about other guys/girls to each other and even share relationship strains and issues. Even though we did have sex, she was the first to say that things wont be different between us just because of that. This was last March too.

We talked a lot since then, but all of a sudden she stops any contacts. I am just trying to see if anyone else was in this situation, and if it worked out for them. I mean did your friend start talking after a while? Or can it be because either of you have an SO now. (She doesn't). All my other female friends are great, but this girl was like a guy friend who never got offended by any jokes or stories and was really chill. She was kind of special, but not in a serious 'developing feelings for her' way.

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by jhawk2817

I have no idea how a person goes from talking all the time to not at all, especially if we were platonic friends.

Ummm, platonic friends don't do this:

Originally Posted by jhawk2817

Even though we did have sex, she was the first to say that things wont be different between us just because of that.

And I second what 33girl says. If she really thought it wouldn't change things, she was very naive.

As others have said, ask her.

[jhawk2817]

Nah. I will leave her alone.

I mean a person who cant get back to a text or a fb message after I have sent it over a month ago is clearly not mature enough to have a serious conversation about anything.

Most of you have said move on or take a hint and I guess I get it. No more bothering her. It sucks because I have tons of my DVDs at her place. DAMN! lol

[33girl]

Originally Posted by jhawk2817

Nah. I will leave her alone.

I mean a person who cant get back to a text or a fb message after I have sent it over a month ago is clearly not mature enough to have a serious conversation about anything.

It has nothing to do with maturity. Some people just can't take a hint and you have to be blunt/rude for them to get it.

I'm starting to think the "50 texts a day" were 40 from you and 10 from her.