Shutter Fraternities for Young Women's Good

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Strictly physically speaking, a man who becomes aroused and doesn't see it through to its conclusion IS going to be far more uncomfortable (for lack of a better word) than a woman who becomes aroused and doesn't see it through. That's simple biology. Young men do not always do a good job of using their brain instead of their hormones.

I honestly think there are a lot of nice, sweet, thoughtful, enlightened guys who end up acting in ways they normally wouldn't because the biological urges are so strong. It truly is impossible for a woman to understand how that feels.

The bolded sounds very strange coming from a woman in the first place.

And my question then is, how do other guys, whether "enlightened" or sexist pigs, seem to manage to avoid acting in those "ways?"

[33girl]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

The bolded sounds very strange coming from a woman in the first place.

And my question then is, how do other guys, whether "enlightened" or sexist pigs, seem to manage to avoid acting in those "ways?"

Some men have more willpower than others. Some men have weaker urges than others. I find it bizarre that you don't understand that men and women are biologically different, and that within those two genders are differences. I'm talking about YOUNG men for whom all this is relatively new.

I'm sure there are guys who went out on a date with a girl never intending to exert any sort of pressure who ended up doing so because of their physical urges. If you don't understand that, you must not have dated males in high school or college. Then again, you said you didn't like going to mixers and pretty much looked down your nose at them, so maybe you didn't.

But NONE of this applies to the original post and giving someone a freakin' roofie. Or what fraternities have to do with it.

[sigmadiva]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Some men have more willpower than others. Some men have weaker urges than others. I find it bizarre that you don't understand that men and women are biologically different, and that within those two genders are differences. I'm talking about YOUNG men for whom all this is relatively new.

I'm sure there are guys who went out on a date with a girl never intending to exert any sort of pressure who ended up doing so because of their physical urges. If you don't understand that, you must not have dated males in high school or college. Then again, you said you didn't like going to mixers and pretty much looked down your nose at them, so maybe you didn't.

But NONE of this applies to the original post and giving someone a freakin' roofie. Or what fraternities have to do with it.

Thank you for observing this 33girl.


Now I think I understand the basis for why Drole says what she says.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by sigmadiva

Thank you for observing this 33girl.


Now I think I understand the basis for why Drole says what she says.

You know what, I've considered this again, and what to add the following to my previous statements:

Go fuck yourself.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

You know what, I've considered this again, and want to add the following to my previous statements:

Go fuck yourself.

LOL. No disrespect to sigmadiva but I am not the least bit mad at this.

At the same time, sigmadiva may not have meant that post as it read. Maybe she truly had a nonsnarky eureka moment.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

LOL. No disrespect to sigmadiva but I am not the least bit mad at this.

At the same time, sigmadiva may not have meant that post as it read. Maybe she truly had a nonsnarky eureka moment.

While it is possible, I do sincerely doubt it. Occam's Razor favors the snide personal attack over the honest revelation.

[sigmadiva]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

You know what, I've considered this again, and what to add the following to my previous statements:

Go fuck yourself.

It's okay.

I've come to realize this is your default answer when you've run out of something funny, witty or intelligent to say.

*shrugs*

[Munchkin03]

Is it this deep?

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

Is it this deep?

The discussion in this thread is extremely tame compared to the discussions that I have witnessed in real life.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by sigmadiva

It's okay.

I've come to realize this is your default answer when you've run out of something funny, witty or intelligent to say.

*shrugs*

Write something that deserves an intelligent response then, rather than a sneering remark. Because quite frankly, and I am typing this for my sake as well as yours, sinking to that particular level is a really shitty thing to do. The particular way you did it, by replying to someone else, was also very passive aggressive shitty thing to do. At the same time it was incredibly weak, and in itself fairly misogynistic. So instead of thinking of it as me running out of something witty, see it as you did something shitty.

And feel free to think that my ire over this means that your comment was ~obviously~ on point. I don't really care what you think about my life, social life, and so on. Feel free to think that I'm crazy, or a hypocrite, or whatever you like. I don't give a shit. And feel free to think that my use of profanity indicates a lack of intelligence or vocabulary, I also don't give a shit about that either.

But I do give a shit about the fact that you want to skate away like you said nothing and this is all some cock fight between the two of us. I'll argue my points, I will attempt to be as reasonable as possible in those arguments, I will call out people who are making what I see as misogynistic or heterosexist or racist comments. I will not insult someone's personal life. I would appreciate it if you would do the same and keep your assumptions, insults, and snide comments about my life in your head and off the page.

[sigmadiva]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

Write something that deserves an intelligent response then, rather than a sneering remark. Because quite frankly, and I am typing this for my sake as well as yours, sinking to that particular level is a really shitty thing to do. The particular way you did it, by replying to someone else, was also very passive aggressive shitty thing to do. At the same time it was incredibly weak, and in itself fairly misogynistic. So instead of thinking of it as me running out of something witty, see it as you did something shitty.

And feel free to think that my ire over this means that your comment was ~obviously~ on point. I don't really care what you think about my life, social life, and so on. Feel free to think that I'm crazy, or a hypocrite, or whatever you like. I don't give a shit. And feel free to think that my use of profanity indicates a lack of intelligence or vocabulary, I also don't give a shit about that either.

But I do give a shit about the fact that you want to skate away like you said nothing and this is all some cock fight between the two of us. I'll argue my points, I will attempt to be as reasonable as possible in those arguments, I will call out people who are making what I see as misogynistic or heterosexist or racist comments. I will not insult someone's personal life. I would appreciate it if you would do the same and keep your assumptions, insults, and snide comments about my life in your head and off the page.

I knew you had it in you!


And by "it" - just so we are clear, that good 'ol DF mojo!!!!!


ETA - why take me so seriously? I thought we were nothing more than screen names on some random message board?