Plan would require foster children to shop for clothing in thrift stores

[Elephant Walk]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

And if the only way you can justify a policy is by a "back in my day" story, well STFU politician (who I assume wears himself shiny new shoes now.) Nothing like telling a foster kid he can only wear hand me downs to really emphasize that he's got zero self worth.

Oh, I missed where clothes defined self-worth.

You got a link on that?

Alot of poor kids in the Delta with both parents. Should we give them vouchers for them to buy hollister or whatever it is the kids are buying these days?

[VandalSquirrel]

Originally Posted by PiKA2001

How could they enforce this? Hand out vouchers instead of cash? The only benefit I see from this is that kids could get more clothes for the money.

I have no idea how enforcement would work, that's your home state

When I had a retail job there were vouchers and we would get a kid set up with basics, including a bag to keep their stuff in. We always had sales as well as coupons and open late (11 pm seven days a week) so if an item in the right size was at one of the other four stores they could go get it or someone could bring it over. If someone had ripped open a package of socks or underwear we could repackage it and sell it at a lower price or just a few pairs if that's what the situation merited. A list and voucher/purchase order was set up kind of like WIC, only certain items at a certain price were allowed and it was all documented with that state.

Looks like a he's changed his tune a bit http://www.senate.michigan.gov/gop/s...83&District=16 Maybe I should email him my suggestion?

Originally Posted by Elephant Walk

Oh, I missed where clothes defined worth.

You got a link on that?

Alot of poor kids in the Delta with both parents. Should we give them vouchers for them to buy hollister or whatever it is the kids are buying these days?

I've seen brand new Garanimals separates at Walmart for $3 that a kid could get in their size and all the pieces coordinate with each other. Some stores often have basic items at a low price all the time, like Target, Old Navy always has some t-shirt for less than a gallon of gas, and Payless Shoe Source probably has a BOGO on shoes.

Unless you or anyone else can guarantee that kids can get everything at a thrift store it is a ridiculous limiting option. Should all resources be utilized, including thrift stores, second hand stores, and charities? Yes. Should a store with variable inventory be the only option? No. Your Delta kids don't need snow boots, mittens, long johns, parkas, hats, or such anyway so they could just cut off their pants and sleeves to make shorts and tanks, amirite?

Maybe where you live is behind the times but it is child endangerment here to put kids in Hollister or Abercrombie & Fitch.

[PiKA2001]

Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel

I have no idea how enforcement would work, that's your home state

True but I wasn't a foster child nor did my parents receive a clothing allowance for me.

Looks like a he's changed his tune a bit http://www.senate.michigan.gov/gop/s...83&District=16 Maybe I should email him my suggestion?

I actually think this is a good proposal.

Maybe where you live is behind the times but it is child endangerment here to put kids in Hollister or Abercrombie & Fitch.

I confused.

[ASUADPi]

Originally Posted by Elephant Walk

Oh, I missed where clothes defined self-worth.

You got a link on that?

Alot of poor kids in the Delta with both parents. Should we give them vouchers for them to buy hollister or whatever it is the kids are buying these days?

I'm guessing it has been a long time since you were a child or you have chosen to repress your childhood memories.

What I wore to school as a child completely affected my schooling. While I loved the academics, I HATED the social aspects. I didn't wear hand me downs (as the only girl in the family) but I got the cheapest clothes known to man. With that my clothes were usually too big for me. I also had a lot of sewn clothes (via my mom) while I loved what she made for me I was teased MERCILESSLY by my fellow classmates. It wasn't until I was in high school that it got slightly better, but only my junior and senior years because I was working and could get clothes with my own money.

Kids are cruel. I still see it now as a teacher.

So yes, clothes do define a child's self worth.

These children already feel crappy because they are in foster care and the older they get the less chance they have for adoption, then add to it the teasing they could be getting from their clothing. Their opinions of themselves are probably in the toilet.

[Elephant Walk]

Originally Posted by ASUADPi

I'm guessing it has been a long time since you were a child or you have chosen to repress your childhood memories.

What I wore to school as a child completely affected my schooling. While I loved the academics, I HATED the social aspects. I didn't wear hand me downs (as the only girl in the family) but I got the cheapest clothes known to man. With that my clothes were usually too big for me. I also had a lot of sewn clothes (via my mom) while I loved what she made for me I was teased MERCILESSLY by my fellow classmates. It wasn't until I was in high school that it got slightly better, but only my junior and senior years because I was working and could get clothes with my own money.

Kids are cruel. I still see it now as a teacher.

So yes, clothes do define a child's self worth.

These children already feel crappy because they are in foster care and the older they get the less chance they have for adoption, then add to it the teasing they could be getting from their clothing. Their opinions of themselves are probably in the toilet.

At the Salvation Army in my hometown, you could get the newest well-known brands for two, three dollars for t-shirts, and two or three dollars for jeans.

60$ is plenty and you can be what they call "fashionable".

[33girl]

Well the thing is, you have to shop at a Salvation Army/Goodwill etc in a nice neighborhood.

Trust me, in my BFE hometown, there are not fashionable things at either place. There are lots of pleated stonewashed jeans, though.

[agzg]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Trust me, in my BFE hometown, there are not fashionable things at either place. There are lots of pleated stonewashed jeans, though.

Totally making a comeback:



This is Rihanna, btw.

[Munchkin03]

Originally Posted by Elephant Walk

At the Salvation Army in my hometown, you could get the newest well-known brands for two, three dollars for t-shirts, and two or three dollars for jeans.

60$ is plenty and you can be what they call "fashionable".

That's YOUR hometown. Where I grew up and where I live now, most people who are trying to get rid of barely-worn or new designer clothes aren't going to take them to Goodwill or Salvation Army--they're going to one of the smaller charity thrift shops (which are expensive and not at all like Goodwill) or resale/consignment shops. The things that actually make it to Goodwill or Salvation Army tend to be costumes or things for extremely large people.

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by Elephant Walk

Oh, I missed where clothes defined self-worth.

You got a link on that?

Alot of poor kids in the Delta with both parents. Should we give them vouchers for them to buy hollister or whatever it is the kids are buying these days?

Well, only if you want people to call them "shanes," which certainly wouldn't be good for their self-worth.