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Originally Posted by GreekGirley
Not going to say where I'm from or what conference my school is in, but suffice it to say that Greek Life is a big deal at this school...
How do your sorority chapters address situations where a member gets pregnant? Do you let her stay, make her resign, what? I realize it's a sensitive topic and I want to try and be sensitive about it, but I'm at a loss on what to do.
Also, this girl still has our sorority letters in her facebook pictures. If she resigns or is asked to leave but stays at the same school (instead of transfer to go alum), do you ask her to remove the letters from her FB page?
Thanks for your help.
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1. She drops out of school and makes up a story that she has to go take care of her terminally ill grandmother.
2. Despite your best efforts to stay in touch, she's suddenly gone gone gone. No one can reach her.
3. She returns the next year, and somehow she's "different" but you can't exactly explain why. She's a little heavier and feels the need to talk about her grandmother's southern cooking and how she made biscuits every night, even though she was TERMINALLY ILL.
Five years after graduation you all get together for your first "reunion". She doesn't show up, but one of your chapter sisters finally breaks out the story after a late night of revelry, drinking, and stories about how much fun it was in college....yep, in case y'all didn't know what happened, she was PREGNANT and so and so was the father and he never offered to marry her.
Welcome to 1968. Happened in countless houses on campuses everywhere, and it happened a lot in the South. Happened to my big sis! Except she got the boy to marry her. Last I heard they were still married.