Thanks, it seems like most of the VA schools have deferred rush.
Also, FWIW, my school didn't really need recs, but no one thought it was weird if a girl sent one in.
LOL I was just talking about this with an alumna of a school that has a large but laid back recruitment. She told me that in the rare occasion that her chapter received a recommendation, they felt obligated to give a bid to the pnm if they liked her.
W&M alum here--recs are definitely not needed or even the norm at W&M, but we certainly appreciated them whenever we received them. We were more likely to give a woman a second chance if she had a good rec from an alum, so I would say definitely send one if you have the opportunity.
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