I NEED ADVICE!! PLEASE!!!

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Originally Posted by vicplemm

I go to a small school and there are only 5 sororities. DZ, KD, DG, Theta Phi, and Phi Sig. I did fall recruitment and ended up leaving early because i felt really pressured and unsure of what i wanted. plus i had my heart set on one sorority i didnt get an invite to the next round from. I had my heart set on that one and wasn't ready to make a decision about a sorority i wasnt even considering. With all that being said, i really wish i had taken a bid from the other sorority. This campus is very greek oriented. everyone is greek. I want to make more friends and it seems the only answer is greek. Only two sororities are doing spring recruitment and i'm not sure if i'd be happy at either of them. The girls were nice but idk how much we actually had in common. Should i wait til fall again and try for the sororities i wanted or settle for one of the other two? I'm not a snob i just want to make sure i'm happy. Also I think a big factor in not getting my invite for the next round was my GPA in high school. I was really sick my senior year and had to school from the hospital most of the year. This year so far I have a 3.933. When checking GPA during recruitment as a sophomore, do they check high school or just college? if its just college i feel like i would do much better. I know this a lot of random info i just really need help. spring recruitment for one of the sororities i didnt absolutlely love is tonight and i cant decide if i should go.

Thanks!!!

So is it because you were sick last year, or because your GPA sucked, or because your favorite dropped you and you didn't like who still wanted you back, or what?

Did you actually get a bid from the sorority?

Which round did you drop out from?

What was your HS GPA?

How did you know that you absolutely loved one sorority if you didn't give the others a chance? You said that you weren't even considering the other sororities. Why not? That is the purpose of recruitment - to CONSIDER ALL CHAPTERS PARTICIPATING.

Yes, do you come off like a snob, because you wouldn't give everyone an equal chance. What is different this time around (other than your GPA) that you think that going through recruitment again will earn you a bid to your "favorite" sorority?