Okay, some suggestions:
-Everyone should have at least 2-3 ancedotes she can use, in the right context. They shouldn't contain anything too racy or involve heavy partying and should only be a few minutes long. Think of a few fun times you've had, and work on them until they're genuinely funny, and have a few "entrance points" (tie-ins with other topics). You may also want to think of a few to steer the conversation AWAY from the Boys, Booze, Bucks & Bible. If someone asks about how much, direct them to the disclosure sheet then IMMEDIATELY change the subject to how you almost bought a pair of shoes for $400 when you thought they were $4, then gravitate to shoes. Practice, practice, pratice to make this all sound effortless.
-Know your sisters! How are you going to steer a PNM to the sister with similar values or likes if you don't know them? If a PNM mentions that she's a Steelers fan, make sure that she at least meets the sister whose ancedotes include the time she got a chance to kiss the Super Bowl Trophy! This works for almost anything - classes, professors, high schools, future plans, pets, etc.
-Never, ever chew gum! The only exceptions are: 1) to take a few chews to cleanse your breath, then spit it out and 2) playing a tramp at a Fifties party or other role-playing time. If you're mature enough for college, you're too mature to chew like a cow.
-Don't spend valuable time putting other GLOs, parents, or other people down.
-Relax! If you've practiced enough, you're ahead of the game. You're already in, and you're talking to women who would like to be where you are. Exude confidence in yourself, in your sorority, in life, and it will show. Power is the ultimate high to others!
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