Who guarantees placement?

[33girl]

Originally Posted by AXOrushadvisor

lane swerve..

PNM's should have to sign a code of conduct IMHO. I worked with a struggling Chapter that has since closed that had PNM's being HORRIBLE to the Chapter because they didn't want to be there- to the point that it would make the actives cry. I thought it was disrespectful and rude. You would NEVER act that way in someone else's home and it shouldn't happen in recruitment. I would like to see women who behave badly be released from recruitment.

I was going to add #4 to that list: The PNM is not a raging bitch.

The problem is it works and the sororities who DO like them sometimes overlook it and would throw a fit if they weren't allowed to pledge the woman who was Miss Sunshine at THEIR parties.

Plus it's a subjective thing. The rude PNMs could just as easily say "my land, they just misunderstood me...I was having gas...that's just my humor...yadda yadda yadda" and it devolves into a she-said/she-said.

So yeah, good idea, but unless the PNM does something like walking out of the party, I don't know how you could follow it through.

[Alumiyum]

Originally Posted by 33girl

I was going to add #4 to that list: The PNM is not a raging bitch.

The problem is it works and the sororities who DO like them sometimes overlook it and would throw a fit if they weren't allowed to pledge the woman who was Miss Sunshine at THEIR parties.

Plus it's a subjective thing. The rude PNMs could just as easily say "my land, they just misunderstood me...I was having gas...that's just my humor...yadda yadda yadda" and it devolves into a she-said/she-said.

So yeah, good idea, but unless the PNM does something like walking out of the party, I don't know how you could follow it through.

It probably would only be enforceable in the PNM-walking-out-of-the-room situations (or saying something so bitchy there's no way to take it out of context) but it might at least keep those who make snide remarks from doing it during or in between parties if they're nervous about being dropped from recruitment.