is Zeta right for me?

[Gatorbaby]

^ I disagree. I didn't check beforehand and having the sorority as a time constraint has not only made me more efficient in studying but also happier and more directed in keeping my GPA up (so that I can make my chapter proud and represent us well as a pre-med student with a high GPA). I've made good friends that I know will support me through my academic challenges. However, had I looked into technically how much time a sorority takes, I would've been freaked out and dropped my bid. If you want to make it work, it can and it will.
That being said, and with me taking an exit from a personal anecdote, I do respect those who consider how much a sorority can be as a time constraint if they have other goals in mind. It is always best to be informed before joining, but life doesn't always work out this way! And I find that if a member works with exec or those in charge there are ways to squeak around things.