Made a mistake by depledging?

[knight_shadow]

Originally Posted by whatif9

I depledged a sorority at school last semester. I'm currently a junior now. I haven't stopped thinking about what would have happened if I hadn't depledged and just stuck through it. I was doing terrible in school and had to drop a class, also failing 2 other exams I took while pledging. I only had a week left of pledging when I did decide to depledge. I just want to stop thinking about this sorority and seeing how much fun the girls are having and wondering what would have happened. I love Greek life and all it has to offer but my grades suffered because of it. I have tons of dreams too about me being in the sorority or me begging them to take me back. What do I do?

1. You can't love Greek Life because you haven't experienced it.

2. You can let it go or try again. Just realize that your chances are going to be very low, considering your class standing and previous sorority involvement.

There's really nothing else you can do.

[33girl]

Have you stayed in touch with the girls in the sorority at all?

[whatif9]

Originally Posted by knight_shadow

1. You can't love Greek Life because you haven't experienced it.

2. You can let it go or try again. Just realize that your chances are going to be very low, considering your class standing and previous sorority involvement.

There's really nothing else you can do.

alright then how about i love the IDEA of Greek Life. just sucks that I'm already a junior. I just need to focus on my school work so I can try and get into medical school and just forget about it. I'm sure when I get older and am out of college it won't be that big of a deal, its just hard seeing everyone around campus and knowing that I was once close with them but our friendship has drifted apart because I depledged. Thanks for everyone's input though it helped.