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Originally Posted by KDLadyBSU
I'm disappointed in my sisters... Yes this young girl was kinda creepy in her story and a bit overzealous in her attempt to be a KD. But shouldn't we be happy that someone is that interested in our sorority even if her intentions were off base? I read through the thread and not once did I see a sister stand up and say hey thats ok thanks for apologizing now may I give you a bit of advice... instead I saw slam after slam and more than once the comment "well you're not getting in now..." or they're going to "blacklist" you. These are NOT the values I have been taught to uphold. Maybe we should take a step back and reflect. Maybe we should give this young one positive feedback and nurture her to make the best choices for her, give her the positive influence to make a wise greek choice that her mother is obviously not giving her. I have always encouraged young girls that I met that have said "I love what you stand for I want to be a KD too or I want to be in your sorority" that they need to be open when going through the recruitment process and if they look for whats right for them then they will be happiest... I think this is what this girl needed, not our criticism. Sorry to come down on all who posted, I'm just disappointed to see sisters acting this way.
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This thread is eight months old. The majority of the posters were not KDs.
How can you, through one side of your mouth, say how that the OP deserved to have been treated better, but then through the other side of your mouth criticize KD sisters?
This is something I don't understand. I am disappointed to see someone calling out sisters, but without having any background on the thread or understanding of the issues.
I never understand these types of post where people are treating their own sisters poorly but then say that a total stranger should have been treated better. This isn't exclusive to KD, I've seen this happen in many other threads.
I'm disappointed
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