Can't decide to rush or not...

[Lafayette79]

I read many Internet sites and post on maybe, six. Invariably, the majority of posters on most sites, are sad people who have little to offer.

The one exception to this rule (of which I am aware), is Greekchat. Almost all of the people who post on GC wish only to give new people helpful advice. There is very little of the usual crazy. The point being, is that advice given here is valuable to you, while most Internet talk is not so good.

I encourage you to take comments like these to heart. They wish only that you join us in our Greek Life. The size of this Website attests to the size of of Greek Life and every year, the most important thing for the houses, is more members and you are a potential new member, which puts you in a good position.

Originally Posted by ellebud

I was having a philosophical discussion with a friend about another issue, but similiar in that it involves "commitment". Commitment to an idea, a man (or woman), to an organization or........I have come to the following conclusion: By not making a decision you've made one: status quo.

Originally Posted by ree-Xi

Without knowing more, I'm leaning towards suggesting that you trying it. Follow it through to the very end. You might lose the money for registration and some time at events, but at the very least, you'll have tried, had fun, and perhaps made friends.

Originally Posted by excelblue

Why not?

If you don't rush, you don't get into a sorority and life continues as usual.

[ree-Xi]

The bottom line: if you don't try, will you regret it? Will never knowing the answer to, "What if" drive you crazy?

[ADPiTigergurl]

Also remember that you will be hanging out with more girls than are in your pledge class, you are in a chapter full of women. We have a senior in our class this year and while she is definately older and more mature than her pledge class she still gets along with everyone in it and has become really close with other girls in the chapter that are closer to her age.