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Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel
If I was trying to make her feel bad, I would have done so, and I could have been insulting and nasty to her. I was mentioning why she may not have seen them, and perhaps to change her definition a bit. If people post to tell women to be open minded about a chapter and they couldn't have met all women who (play the tuba, dress like Thundercats, are goat cheese connoisseurs) they have something in common with, I'm not suggesting anything out of the ordinary that is told to PNMs all the time.
I don't beg for stories from PNMs so don't even try and put it on me when people don't come back and post. If someone doesn't want to know what other people think, they shouldn't put it on the internet.
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I actually stopped caring what others think of me a while ago, so I don't really care. It did hurt a little, but I brushed it off. Keep in mind while posting on PNM stories that we are in a very emotional state right now, and the slightest thing can destroy us, make us quit recruitment, or runaway from GC. Consider their feelings a little, especially when we just want to share our stories with others who will appreciate it.
This isn't specifically to you, but to everyone, especially the haters. I have read many stories on here and am always mad at the haters. If you don't like the story, read something else. Don't bring down the person's self-esteem or put a negative image in her head when she is sharing such a wonderful time in her life. What good will it bring you to insult someone online? It's called cyber-bullying and people have committed suicide over it. Not that it would get that extreme here hopefully, but my old high school did a whole program about it.
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