Big Sis/ Little Bro Jealousy :[

[southbymidwest]

It is tough to be in a long distance relationship. But the bottom line is, do you trust him? If you don't, then just do everyone a favor and cut bait. Girls will be talking to him, checking him out, etc. unless he looks and acts like Steve Urkel. He has the right to be friends with whomever he wants, even a girl you don't like, just like you do. You will probably become friends with guys he doesn't especially appreciate either. Just remember, he chose you to be with, not this girl. So be happy for his enthusiasm for his new fraternity doings, be gracious about this girl, even though you would like to push her off a tall building, and let him meet your expectations for trustworthiness.

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by southbymidwest

It is tough to be in a long distance relationship. But the bottom line is, do you trust him? If you don't, then just do everyone a favor and cut bait. Girls will be talking to him, checking him out, etc. unless he looks and acts like Steve Urkel. He has the right to be friends with whomever he wants, even a girl you don't like, just like you do. You will probably become friends with guys he doesn't especially appreciate either. Just remember, he chose you to be with, not this girl. So be happy for his enthusiasm for his new fraternity doings, be gracious about this girl, even though you would like to push her off a tall building, and let him meet your expectations for trustworthiness.

Good advice. Jealousy is not a good sign in a relationship. These childish relationship games will drive you nuts if you allow them. Either you trust him or you don't. Stewing over what his "Big Sis" may be luring him into is just a waste of time.