Bid Day Activiites? Drag show and groping?

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by MysticCat

So as not to derail that thread, which consists of a PNM/NM's story and lots of congratulations, with a discussion on whether what her chapter planned was appropriate?

I don't see starting a seperate thread about it as passive-agressive at all. I see it as trying not to rain on the NM's parade and trying to keep any discussion about the one activity in question seperate from that particular NM's deserved celebration.

This.

I can personally see both sides of this. I probably would have been one of those girls who was uncomfortable with this being my first official intro to the sisterhood, but would have done it anyway (and probably had a good time) so I wouldn't be the weird one. I did a cabert style show in college, so I'm not uncomfortable with the actual activity...but in that case, I signed up for it. But, I guess if this is who your house is, then it works...if the NMs are turned off, then maybe they're in the wrong house, and at least they find that out right off the bat.

Ok, I'm done arguing with myself now...carry on.

[33girl]

I don't think the person who started the thread meant it to be that way - and I partially blame myself for asking for the link - but some of the subsequent comments have been straight up bitchiness.

Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

But, I guess if this is who your house is, then it works...if the NMs are turned off, then maybe they're in the wrong house, and at least they find that out right off the bat.

Exactly my point. I think these girls would have been more horrified by a night of sitting around in their jammies, doing each other's toenails, and watching chick flicks.