What I mean in my posts is that on some campuses, appearance matters. Whether it's shallow or not isn't the question, and I do not think it is helpful to PNMs to act as though this never happens.
Especially when it's down to shoes. Change shoes. Damn.
Relax?
I mean it's just as easy for us to say "Shoes aren't the important thing. Damn."
And, "Whether it happens or not it's still shallow."
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