There's not as much of a problem with 40+ year old men pretending to be family as there is with 20ish year old men.
Unless they're creepy.
Jenny - I think (just pulling this out of my butt) that stipulation might mean member-only bid day activities like retreats? I mean, the moms that are going to be there aren't all members.
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