A married sophomore might be a hard sell at some schools, especially at schools where Greek Life is more traditional (eg. 18-22 year old unmarried women, sorority housing, socials, etc.)
And, if the OP is not going to go through formal recruitment until she attends the Big 10 school, at that time she would be a junior.
Like I said: consider all the factors, and again, good luck whatever you decide.
__________________ "One of the painful things about our time is that those who feel certainty are stupid, and those with any imagination and understanding are filled with doubt and indecision." Bertrand Russell, The Triumph of Stupidity
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