AzTheta: I'm not affiliated with any sorority period, but thanks for giving an answer just in case I was. Thanks for clarifying the formal vs. informal thing. The school I'm currently at doesn't have "quotas" to fill for formal rush, so I was unfamiliar with the system.
Yeah I did post my additional question on another thread, which I thought was more applicable. I am married, but I'm only 19, so it's not like I'm totally on another planet from other girls my age. Plus, I'm very recently married too. I have wanted to be part of a sorority even before I was married. My husband knows this and he is supportive of it. Sorry if I sound defensive, I just want to be clear and honest. I just hope that it won't impact my chances at at rush too much. I want to be part of a sisterhood just like any other girl; the fact that I'm married doesn't change that