Anti-Greek parents

[Miriverite]

Ignoring the fact that you're replying to an old post... I wouldn't say that parents who are "anti-greek" are "just stupid", and it's a hasty generalization to say that "most intelligent people can see the benefits of greek life." Back when parents were in college, many frats/sororities hazed a lot more heavily than they did today. As parents, they naturally wouldn't want their child to go through something like that; likewise, as parents, they would probably prefer to play it safe (don't rush at all) instead of trying a new venture. It's just a difference in mindset. I can definitely see the benefits of Greek life, but like all the other intelligent people, I can definitely see the detriments.

[rhoyaltempest]

Originally Posted by Miriverite

Ignoring the fact that you're replying to an old post... I wouldn't say that parents who are "anti-greek" are "just stupid", and it's a hasty generalization to say that "most intelligent people can see the benefits of greek life." Back when parents were in college, many frats/sororities hazed a lot more heavily than they did today. As parents, they naturally wouldn't want their child to go through something like that; likewise, as parents, they would probably prefer to play it safe (don't rush at all) instead of trying a new venture. It's just a difference in mindset. I can definitely see the benefits of Greek life, but like all the other intelligent people, I can definitely see the detriments.

I agree that the other poster's comment was uncalled for but once your child becomes a member despite your opposition and is obviously having a great time and a positive experience overall, I too don't understand why a parent wouldn't be supportive and happy for the outcome. It seems selfish to continue to put your child's choice and organization down because of something that happened or that you observed in your past, especially when your child is not having such an experience. I know it's natural but sometimes parents can be quite selfish when it comes to the lives their children choose to lead, especially since they have in fact raised them to be independent and think for themselves.