University of Arizona recruitment

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by bear_down

All of it's a big deal you condescending toad.

Aw you're cute.

Missing a party will definitely get her released from that chapter and very well may get her released from recruitment completely.

Hence why I said "I get that." It sounds like she's gotten that advice and knows who to talk to about it.

The even bigger deal is that dad is already threatening her financially.

Thus far he's only said "you can't be off work that night." We don't know if there's a reason why he can't spare her that one night or not. Or if this is a pattern of financial manipulation or not.

The recruitment schedule has been available for months. Recruitment is still a couple weeks away but he's not willing to make any acommodations for her.

Hence why I, among others, have recommended she talk to her dad about it and make sure he's aware of the time commitment. Even if there's no way she can get out of work this one night.

Work happens but to gave this kind of drama before you're even a member I'd something that she really needs to consider and talk to her dad about.

She should talk to her dad, but this isn't actually "drama." Not as of yet. It sounds like you're projecting other experiences into the things that this individual PNM has actually said.

Being a sister is a big responsibility and they both need to know about it since he's paying her way AND her boss.

Agree completely.