PNM's and future college facebook groups caution! - Page 2

33girl · #1 07-19-2010, 11:35 PM

At least it's not like a certain university (not mine, but another PA state school) who hardly has any active links to Greek life pages left because they were all on Geocities.

sydney bristow · #2 07-20-2010, 12:21 AM

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Originally Posted by 33girl

YOU WIN AT LIFE.

ree-Xi · #3 07-20-2010, 09:34 AM

Interesting what some people will share about themselves. On a roommate finder thread at one of my schools:

Q: how do you enjoy your time?
A: getttttting willlldd, drinking, shopping all the timee and witttth friends alwaysss.

Q: party?
A: helll yeaaaa.

Q: drink? yesss!
A: smoke? sometimess

Q: mind having people in your room, late night? parttyyyinggg alll nighhhhtt and my friends will be donee a lot.

AlphaFrog · #4 07-20-2010, 09:51 AM

What is it with the extra letterssss thinggg? The kids at my church do this on their Facebook stati all the time. It drives me crazyyyyyy.

ree-Xi · #5 07-22-2010, 12:43 PM

So I just came across a post for a school that someone I know is going to. The girl wrote:

When does rush start? Is there rush during the summer? or it's just before Fall? ... I think i'm going to rush ABC and XYZ. I know a couple girls in ABC and i'm a legacy for XYZ because my sister was president of her chapter at ----- How does it work though? do you rush specific ones? or you rush all of them?? lol

If her sister is was president of her chapter at XYZ, wouldn't she know a little about recruitment?

FSUZeta · #6 07-22-2010, 12:58 PM

^one would think!^

DTD Alum · #7 07-22-2010, 03:24 PM

My school's board is fine. The only thing was that a fraternity member posted a thread to help answer questions about Greek life (fantastic recruitment idea on his part, although I bet sorority members might be considered dirty rushing if they did it). A NPHC sorority member also chimed in with assistance. The questions were mostly about when is rush, how expensive is it, is there hazing etc. Perfectly normal questions which were answered responsibly.

One PNM, however, wrote "what are the specific images for each sorority? I need to know whether I join the right one or not." The fraternity member wrote a tactful response about how you have to rush to find the house that is right for you and not listen to stereotypes. She then replied (something to the extent of) "I know...but seriously, what are they? I am just curious. I heard ABC is the best choice."

The funny thing is that simply by looking at how she's represented herself on her profile, she does not have a shot in hell at ABC and is actually going to be very hard pressed to get a bid to the vast majority of sororities.

DrPhil · #8 07-22-2010, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by DTD Alum

The funny thing is that simply by looking at how she's represented herself on her profile, she does not have a shot in hell at ABC and is actually going to be very hard pressed to get a bid to the vast majority of sororities.

Good.

Lesson learned. I hope she goes bidless.

Parfait · #9 07-23-2010, 03:26 AM

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Originally Posted by DTD Alum

"I know...but seriously, what are they? I am just curious. I heard ABC is the best choice."

Well that is quite obnoxious of her. Why would you be so pushy about it? Is she just clueless?

AOII_LB93 · #10 07-22-2010, 04:47 PM

Oh the extra letters thing drives me nuts! My younger sister does it, even via chat on facebook and I called her on it. She said "I'm so exciteddddddd I got promoteddddd!" My response, "Congrats, though it was obviously not for your spelling skills."

I checked out my school's 2014 (there are like 4) but nothing bad thus far.

abbeydae · #11 07-27-2010, 02:29 PM

I'm not sure if this is the right place to put this question, but it's regarding facebook and recruitment.

I met this girl at orientation and we discovered that we had a mutal friend (who happens to be an XYZ) and we are both going through recruitment, so we added each other on facebook. Yesterday was her birthday so I wrote a birthday message on her wall. She wrote this on my wall:
"thank u so much girl! u excited for rush?? get pumped! XYZ PC10!!!!!"

I deleted it off my wall, was that the right thing to do? I'm friends with girls from other houses and I didn't want them to thing I'm biased.

Your thoughts?

DrPhil · #12 07-27-2010, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by abbeydae

Your thoughts?

I think you did the right thing.

You can delete anything you want from your wall. That's why there's an edit option. If she asks why you deleted it (she may never notice and it may be unimportant to her if she does notice) just tell her that you tend to clean your wall from time to time, nothing personal.

KSUViolet06 · #13 07-27-2010, 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by abbeydae

I'm not sure if this is the right place to put this question, but it's regarding facebook and recruitment.

I met this girl at orientation and we discovered that we had a mutal friend (who happens to be an XYZ) and we are both going through recruitment, so we added each other on facebook. Yesterday was her birthday so I wrote a birthday message on her wall. She wrote this on my wall:
"thank u so much girl! u excited for rush?? get pumped! XYZ PC10!!!!!"

I deleted it off my wall, was that the right thing to do? I'm friends with girls from other houses and I didn't want them to thing I'm biased.

Your thoughts?

Good call.

You don't want other chapters to think you're biased, and you also don't want any XYZs to see that. It's offensive to a chapter when girls post things like that and they have yet to go through recruitment. I mean, until you have that bid in your hand, you're not an XYZ. Who knows? XYZ could cut her the first night.

33girl · #14 07-27-2010, 03:37 PM

You did absolutely the right thing as far as you are concerned, and may have saved her butt in the process as well. Super good call.

Alumiyum · #15 07-27-2010, 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by abbeydae

I'm not sure if this is the right place to put this question, but it's regarding facebook and recruitment.

I met this girl at orientation and we discovered that we had a mutal friend (who happens to be an XYZ) and we are both going through recruitment, so we added each other on facebook. Yesterday was her birthday so I wrote a birthday message on her wall. She wrote this on my wall:
"thank u so much girl! u excited for rush?? get pumped! XYZ PC10!!!!!"

I deleted it off my wall, was that the right thing to do? I'm friends with girls from other houses and I didn't want them to thing I'm biased.

Your thoughts?

You just did both of you a huge favor. Not only could it possibly have an effect on your interactions with the other sororities, it could seriously piss off XYZ. PNM's who ASSume they will be joining a certain chapter often get passed over because their sorority of choice doesn't appreciate a girl who thinks she's the shiznit. But then, no one does.

If she notices you deleted it you might want to throw her a bone by repeating that advice in a tactful way. She might hurt her chances with XYZ if she keeps that up.