Rushing again

Originally Posted by 33girl

angelove, I felt kind of that way with the chapter that won all the athletic competitions. I have 2 left feet. There HAVE been women on here who cut the "higher tier" chapter and explained it in a very nice way. No one has any beef with them. There have been girls who cut the "lower tier" chapter and explain it in a very nice way. No one (well, almost no one) has any beef with them.

It's the attitude that this one is giving that has pissed people off. She's at what is apparently a at least semi-competitive school with 5 groups - and she received invites back. I'm betting there were girls at her school that got cut from ALL the groups. She said rude things about the groups that she did cut and tried to make it sound not rude (which of course has the exact opposite effect). I'll also repeat that if she had become as BFF with these women in the sororities she wants that she thinks she has, they would have already said "are you rushing again once you come back from study abroad?" Oddly enough, she skipped right over that part of my post.

People's minds are set that I am a rude person and I guess trying to state otherwise makes me seem even crueler so I can't even try.
But I am close to many girls in the sororities, most are my age though and have never actually gone through the process from the other side. School hasn't even started and I have not expressed to them that thought of me rushing. Who knows that if I say "hey I might rush again" they'll say "oh do you think thats a good idea? or "Oh yeah, totally do it!" I dont want to say anything to people until I know it is what i want to do. Girls were not cut from all groups (at least the ones I have talked to, i of course cannot say that I know for sure).