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Originally Posted by skylar27
I didn't say I felt slighted. I was wondering whether this is a rehearsed thing sisters usually say this to girls who get released or they actually might be interested in me. Oh I also don't know if it makes a difference but I went to the informal recruitments and didn't go to formal at all. On the other hand I'm going to be a junior. However my school is not that big on greek life, the biggest chapter probably has only 80 girls.
About feeling awkward, they were the ones who approached me afterward I didn't go up to them. I actually felt awkward. lol
EDITED: to clear it up informal for the sororities at my school happens during different times so I was able to go check them out. I also went not knowing a clue what was happening (just to check it out) but ended up loving it toward the end. I do think that made a difference between me and the other girls who hardcore wanted it and had letters of recs and knew a lot of the girls already.
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Ok, you're coming across as a bit defensive. People are offering supporting information because, like any social situation, things are NOT always as cut and dry. When decisions have to be made based on numbers, there will always be people who don't make the cut. Heck, many people have to pick and who who they can invite to their wedding (depending on their budget).
It sucks not to be invited to something you want to be part of. Again, I look at such comments in two ways: some people can be sincere and really mean it, and others are trying to be polite. I'm sorry that you can't understand what people are telling you.
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