Should I join now or wait?

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remmie, only you will be able to determine that. your best bet would be to go thru rush at the university of memphis, learn about the sororities there, meet the members in each chapter and see if you feel a connection with any of them.

as far as transferring to a different school, you may really like memphis and decide not to transfer. if you wait to rush, you will have lost a year of sisterhood. on the other hand, should you join a chapter at memphis and then transfer to tennessee, you may not like the tennessee chapter and decide not to affiliate, they might not think you fit in with them or you may fall in love with a group at memphis that is not at tennessee. all sorts of things can happen.

even though you have friends in a chapter at memphis, you may not click with the other members, and you may not be offered a bid. even though you are a legacy, you may not receive a bid to your mom's sorority, should you wait to rush at tennessee. it's a lot to think about.

just be prepared with recs. and references to all the chapters at u of memphis, give them all a chance and see what happens. good luck!