Should I join now or wait?

[violetpretty]

I didn't read it as the OP saying she is an ADPi legacy, just that it's what most of her friends joined. Does your mom's sorority have a chapter at Memphis? Why are you going to Memphis if you are planning on transferring?

This is a tough one. I don't know what I would do. Recruitment as a sophomore is going to be tough at Tennessee. However, there's no guarantee that you'll be able to transfer and join the chapter at Tennessee if you join one of the chapters at Memphis that also has a chapter at Tennessee, and no guarantee that you'll like the chapter at Tennessee.

Bottom line, you have nothing to lose by going through recruitment at Memphis and then making your decisions from there.

I would edit my signature if I were you. Looks a little presumptuous.

[Psi U MC Vito]

Originally Posted by violetpretty

I would edit my signature if I were you. Looks a little presumptuous.

Am I missing something? Those are song lyrics aren't they?

[sydney bristow]

Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito

Am I missing something? Those are song lyrics aren't they?

The <> <> <> pattern looks an awful lot like ADPi's symbol.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by sydney bristow

The <> <> <> pattern looks an awful lot like ADPi's symbol.

I don't think it has anything to do with that, as she started it ><><>< It just looks like a bunch of cross-stitches to me.

If you wait to rush till you're a junior at UT, you will most likely be screwed. It was a lot different back in your mom's day and that's why she is giving you the horribly bad advice to wait.

I agree with everyone who said go through rush at UM and see how things work out. It sounds to me like you're being pushed into transferring to UT by your parents. We have this up here too - kids are going to schools they like are pushed by their parents to transfer to Penn State for their last two years so they can have that Penn State degree and alumni networking. Never mind the kids are enjoying themselves where they are, get to Penn State which is ginormous and everyone's already made friends, and are miserable.

[sydney bristow]

Originally Posted by 33girl

I don't think it has anything to do with that, as she started it ><><>< It just looks like a bunch of cross-stitches to me.

If you wait to rush till you're a junior at UT, you will most likely be screwed. It was a lot different back in your mom's day and that's why she is giving you the horribly bad advice to wait.

I agree with everyone who said go through rush at UM and see how things work out. It sounds to me like you're being pushed into transferring to UT by your parents. We have this up here too - kids are going to schools they like are pushed by their parents to transfer to Penn State for their last two years so they can have that Penn State degree and alumni networking. Never mind the kids are enjoying themselves where they are, get to Penn State which is ginormous and everyone's already made friends, and are miserable.

Actually that's what I thought too but I was explaining why someone said she might want to change her siggy. On the grand scheme of GC things a design in one's signature is pretty low on the perp totem pole.