^^^Ringing true for my daughter^^^
We had no local panhellinic out here in the sticks to organize recs, so we just asked all of our recommenders to fill out the official form for their sorority and send it along with pictures, resume, and transcript directly to the chapters at the school.
Once the PNM and her family find alumnae for 15 or more sororities, prepare pictures, resumes, transcripts, introductory letters, thank you notes, thank you list for results next fall, SASE to the houses, meeting the alumna the PNM doesn't personally know, etc., she should be stress free until she realizes the importance of summer conduct!