The question "when are you going to have kids?"

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I've answered "never" and people have the audacity to ask "why not". Oh, that boils my blood. Hubby says people are just making conversation, but it's rude, and the reasons why I am not having kids still make my heart break.

I also hate hearing "you can always adopt", but again, with my health issues, I couldn't take care of a child as I would see fit, and it's likely that I wouldn't see the kid graduate. I could never knowingly put any child through that.