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Originally Posted by Hockey Dad
I think you've really been pretty screwed up by that hockey douche and your previous marriage. I get the whole "I'm afraid of marriage" type of thing, but you really gotta get out of that mode unless you just want to have fun. Who said you had to even get serious with anyone?
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This is where YOU brought him up. I'm not whining about not having somebody. I do whine about first dates.. I hate them. The user name made me laugh. Believe it or not, I'm not one of the people here who reports you or hates you. I think you're funny. But, you don't know me at all. I was married for a long time to my second husband and dated him for a long time before we got married, so saying I'm not a long term chick is funny. I'm looking for long term without marriage, which is what I've said all along. And yes, I actively communicate with a variety of men through a variety of means to see if the person I would want that with is out there while still having a full, rich life with or without a partner. That isn't a contradiction.
You see things in black and white and don't seem to be able to see the gray areas in life. Most of life is gray. I love good cheesecake. I will seek out good cheesecake. I won't waste the calories eating bad cheesecake though and I won't be unhappy with my life in general if I never found a good cheesecake again. I'd just enjoy other desserts instead. If a good cheesecake gave me food poisoning, I'd be upset and disappointed and turned off from cheesecake altogether for a while. Eventually, I'd seek out some good cheesecake again.
Men are like cheesecake
Hybrid Mode
