You know them. You're friendly with them. They have sympathy that your Greek experience didn't turn out well. That doesn't mean they want you to be their sister.
And I don't know how anyone else's sorority works, but I know that in my group more than the exec board votes on who gets a bid.
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You know them. You're friendly with them. They have sympathy that your Greek experience didn't turn out well. That doesn't mean they want you to be their sister.
And I don't know how anyone else's sorority works, but I know that in my group more than the exec board votes on who gets a bid.
Yes, what I was getting at is that my reasoning would be spread and nearly all members would know. You said I'm probably not as well known as I think I am. Just saying that the exec would have to give reason to the entire sorority when they vote.
You said I'm probably not as well known as I think I am. Just saying that the exec would have to give reason to the entire sorority when they vote.
Noooooooooooo, that is not what I said. I said they probably don't love you as much as you think they do to go out on a limb for you. I'm pretty sure you ARE well known at this point. Actually "notorious" might be a better word for the situation.
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Noooooooooooo, that is not what I said. I said they probably don't love you as much as you think they do to go out on a limb for you. I'm pretty sure you ARE well known at this point. Actually "notorious" might be a better word for the situation.
This.
They could like you. They might genuinely think "Man I feel really bad for mkprncss and what happened with the local." They may even enjoy having you around and inviting you to chapter dinner. That doesn't mean they want their sorority to be the one who went out on a limb to give you a bid (for whatever reason).
Obviously you want to try, so good luck, but I am just pointing out that like doesn't always = bid.
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