Member of a non active frat formal question.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

c) Have a formal without the fraternity name and symbols. No one can stop you and your friends from doing a get together that is not associated and affiliated with the school and fraternity. Choose a neutral location and do not do anything specific to the fraternity.
d) Don't tell anyone I advised you to do "c." The first rule of unofficial formals is that you do NOT talk about unofficial formals.

This and this. Call it "Mikey's Birthday Party" or something of the like.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by 33girl

This and this. Call it "Mikey's Birthday Party" or something of the like.

Today's collegiates don't know how to do anything. I partially blame the availability of places like GC where they can ask questions instead of just thinking and figuring out what works.

[Gusteau]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

Today's collegiates don't know how to do anything. I partially blame the availability of places like GC where they can ask questions instead of just thinking and figuring out what works.

You would think that a chapter that got shut down (and I'm about to make a big assumption) would know how to keep their shady dealings a secret - or maybe they couldn't and that's why they got shut down. Still, common sense should lead you to know "unofficial formal" means you keep you head down and fly under the radar.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by Gusteau

You would think that a chapter that got shut down (and I'm about to make a big assumption) would know how to keep their shady dealings a secret - or maybe they couldn't and that's why they got shut down. Still, common sense should lead you to know "unofficial formal" means you keep you head down and fly under the radar.

And it doesn't have to be a shady dealing.

[Matsimela]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

Today's collegiates don't know how to do anything. I partially blame the availability of places like GC where they can ask questions instead of just thinking and figuring out what works.

I agree 110% (even though i guess i fall into the category of "today's collegiates" lol) with that statement- not necessarily towards this topic but in general.