I find it unfortunate that the OP is going to be an upperclassman and she is not willing to give this other sorority a chance. By the time she is able rush, again, she may be a Senior. She may have already blown her chances of ever being Greek, depending on where she attends school.
Once again, what is with all this entitlement? We can sit around and say, "I was told this" or "they said that" but, (like in the military when people complain that their Recruiter lied to them, or in college when people complain that they didn't graduate on time because their Academic Advisor lied to them) in all actuality, the OP is (presumably) an adult.
I don't feel bad for anyone who doesn't have the sense to ask the right questions BEFORE signing a bid card (other than her Rho Chi/ Pi Chi/ whatever she calls it) or actually sitting down and READING the information given to the PNMs. I can't imagine this is information that all these sorority women and the Greek Life Advisor choose to hide.
That chapter that you were ABOVE may have been an incredible group of women that you chose not to join. If you didn't match up with "Miss Popular House USA" this semester during formal, what makes you think that you will have a better chance as an upperclassman?
Why don't you take a chance on the ones who took a chance on you? All NPCs have SOMETHING to offer. You chose to ignore that.
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