My recruitment was so competitive/fun/stressful that .................

[33girl]

My rush was so self esteem building!!

I got invited back to all the sororities (except one I cut, and one I knew I had no chance in hell at) for the invite only parties. Having come from an adolescence where I failed regularly at things that entailed "trying out" in any way shape or form...it was a nice change. I know it wasn't a competitive rush but it helped me more than you can imagine.