little question about alums visiting the chapter

[SthrnZeta]

I agree that collegians should stand when alumnae enter the room - that's what I did as a collegian and I thought that's what all chapters did. In terms of a candle pass that involves getting certain issues resolved in the chapter, I agree with FSUZeta, unless you're an advisor, I wouldn't attend (and a candle pass like that, an advisor will most likely be there anyway). Honestly, I would feel like I was intruding a bit. Yes, they're my sisters, but imagine how you'd feel as a collegian in their place... Even if you graduated last year and you still know many of the sisters in that chapter, there are still going to be new girls in the chapter since you left who don't know you and won't understand why you'd attend.