As an interest, should I keep my relationship with a member of a D9 org a secret?

[Gusteau]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

You're nothing more than his "jump off." He's having sex with other people. He doesn't want a public relationship because he wants to keep doing what he's doing. He is probably the campus frat manwhore.

This has absolutely nothing to do with membership in an organization.

I was reading this thinking, "I know NPHC is different...but it sounds like he's playing her." Thanks for the confirmation.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by Gusteau

I was reading this thinking, "I know NPHC is different...but it sounds like he's playing her." Thanks for the confirmation.

NPHC isn't different when it comes to a man telling a woman it may be in her best interest to keep their relationship secret.

The OP is an idiot who still thinks this is about sorority membership. If "they may or may not be bothered by it" is what her mind wanted to hear then...sure.