As an interest, should I keep my relationship with a member of a D9 org a secret?

[Gusteau]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

You're nothing more than his "jump off." He's having sex with other people. He doesn't want a public relationship because he wants to keep doing what he's doing. He is probably the campus frat manwhore.

This has absolutely nothing to do with membership in an organization.

I was reading this thinking, "I know NPHC is different...but it sounds like he's playing her." Thanks for the confirmation.