Did it take you a while to "fit in?"

[33girl]

Also, even if you don't live at the house or suite yet, don't be afraid to drop over on the spur of the moment and just hang out. It is your HOME!! I know some houses or suites might have security barriers, but just call the housemother or person in charge and let them know you're coming to visit.

I lived at the house and we LOVED when girls who didn't live there just dropped in randomly between classes and watched TV with us and such. It might feel awkward to you at first, but everyone else has been where you are.

[MaggieXi]

I felt like I didn't really fit in or click with the girls in my pledge class - which was very cliquey. After the flury of the new member period ended and after initiation, I found 1 or 2 other girls who I became good friends with. As time went by, I ended up having good friends and "my group" within the sorority that was made up of both girls that were older than me and girls that were younger than me.