Big/Little Opinion Please?

[33girl]

It is hard if it seems other b-l relationships in the chapter are "soulmate close" but I assure you, there was a horrific one at some point in the chapter's history. No chapter is that perfect, unless it only has 4 members at a time.

You went through a lot of crap, and are not the same person she took as a little. Everyone grows and changes especially in college. That's life. My big and I were super tight until I moved into the house (she was part of the group who militantly would not live there). We never had a falling out, but...I grew up a little and in a different direction. It sounds like the same kind of thing happened to you and she might feel like you don't "need" her the same way anymore. She has to adjust to that.

Try sending her a letter or a card and letting her know that you want to be part of her life and vice versa. Texts and quick phone messages really don't cut it when you have a lot of feelings you need to get out.