sisterhood

[ASAlamb]

Jenn,

Though you are not yet initiated, these women still offered you a bid into their sisterhood and should treat you that way! You may not have the same ritual experience or knowledge of your organization yet, but you are still considered a member (albeit a new one).

I would recommend talking to one of your chapter advisors if the actives are really insisting on this mindset regarding new members in your chapter.

[ASTalumna06]

Originally Posted by ASAlamb

I would recommend talking to one of your chapter advisors if the actives are really insisting on this mindset regarding new members in your chapter.

ESPECIALLY if this behavior escalates into something that is clearly hazing (and these statements make me think that some might be on the way...). If you already recognize that this is wrong/makes you uncomfortable, then you need to address it as soon as possible. These girls are your sisters and they should try to understand how you're feeling, and to attempt to rectify the situation. If they don't, then I would definitely take the path that others here have suggested and go to someone with more authority.