Revealing a crush

[I.A.S.K.]

If the guy is not giving me any signals that he's in to me then revealing the crush would only be because I felt like telling him. If he seems like he could be interested and is just not saying/doing anything about it then I'd reveal because:
I want him to know that Im feeling him so that we can both get an understanding. I'm not one of those people who gets mad or upset if the feeling isnt returned, but I like to know for sure.
I'd reveal a crush because there isn't a reason not to. I'm not embarrassed by it (and I doubt I'd crush that hard on a guy who'd embarrass me about it) and nothing bad can come of it as we're not around each other all of the time.

It really depends on the situation as to whether or not its better to ask the person out or just let them know that youre digging them. I usually do both. First I let him know I'm feeling him and then a little while later I'll ask him out. That way he's had some time to think about it (if he hasn't thought of me that way before) and can make a clear decision.

I've found that with men subtle doesn't work. Men tend to be simple and stupid so if you like him tell him. Whatever you want and however you feel let him know if you want him to act/respond.
"A closed mouth won't get fed."

[dreamseeker]

Originally Posted by I.A.S.K.

"A closed mouth won't get fed."

we are >here< with that quote. that was my logic in these situations.

[I.A.S.K.]

Originally Posted by dreamseeker

we are >here< with that quote. that was my logic in these situations.

We're probably related and just don't know it yet! lol. You're gonna have to be the cousin I only claim in the off season b/c that Giants mess is just out of order! lol.

I still dont understand how women can feel any type of way about a guy and tell damn near everyone but him! Crazy. lol.

[dreamseeker]

Originally Posted by I.A.S.K.

We're probably related and just don't know it yet! lol. You're gonna have to be the cousin I only claim in the off season b/c that Giants mess is just out of order! lol.

I still dont understand how women can feel any type of way about a guy and tell damn near everyone but him! Crazy. lol.

lol! whatever "partiot!"

but again i agree with the bolded.

[christiangirl]

Originally Posted by dreamseeker

i'm a straightforward type of gal so i let my feelings be known. i'm impatient and i hate waiting and wondering if the person likes me. so i say what's on my mind. to me, rejection is better than agonizing and wondering. *shrug*

THIS.

With one guy, I was so sick of agonizing over it, wondering if he really liked me or if I was just hopeful and seeing clues that weren't really there. It was easier just to tell him and see where he was. We were texting one day, just talking about nothing I just blurted it out. That put the ball in his court so he could clarify.