I Need Help!

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by JuliaNJ

Someone said before I need to adjust my attitude. What do you think I should do?

Thanks.

Start by actually MEETING sorority women at your school before assuming that they all dress alike and have the same hobbies.

A small as your school is, there are probably quite a few in your classes, on staff at the paper, etc.

Once you meet and make friends with them, you can determine whether this is something you are interested in.

[JuliaNJ]

You guys are so right. I know I've been too judgmental my entire life. It's from being so self-conscious and not feeling like I fit in growing up.

I'm really going to make an effort to talk to some sorority members. There's a few on campus that I went to high school with. No one I knew really well but they know me a little bit. And I have classes with a few, too.

Honestly, going to a small college not too far from where you grew up... it has its disadvantages. It's really cliquey. And I'm just as guilty of it (and, as I can tell from here, probably more so) than anyone else.

Some of you have taken a really strict tone with me here. I really want to thank you for pointing out to me what I'm coming off like. I really don't mean any harm at all. And I know I'm going to have to change my attitude if I'm going to go through with this.

The reason why I'm on here is because I really don't know who I can talk to about this. I put "joining a sorority" in google and I clicked around until I found this forum. It's really helping me a lot.

[kddani]

Originally Posted by JuliaNJ

The reason why I'm on here is because I really don't know who I can talk to about this.

A counselor of some sort, for a start. Your school should offer them. You're obviously not happy with the person that you are that you want to change so much, and you're looking to a sorority to help you fix that. I think someone with professional training is better equipped to help you sort out your feelings, ideals and goals than an internet message board.