Recruitment at a small Alabama School

[Katmandu]

Agree ^^^

She said they were warm, welcoming and sweet. Then she ranked them last over a group that were ice bitches. I don't get it, and I don't really have much sympathy. I do have sympathy for women who have accepted all invitations and get completely released from recruitment. That is a different situation, and often has to do with recs, grades or upperclass status.

We have had a lot of stories this year of "open minded" pnms who receive invitations, even bids, but "can't see themselves" in the group and drop out. I believe that translates most of the time to, "I am too good for this group". In any group over 20 or 25 members, there is going to be a variety of personalities, looks, interests and scholastic ability and it is the rare woman who can't find a common bond and friendship somewhere in the chapter.

Truth be told, there are boring women even in the "top" group on campus.