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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
YES.
Absolutely.
Just because the other chapters aren't her first choice, does not mean that she should show up to their parties and huff, pout, act bored, be rude, or otherwise disrespect the chapter. And yes, bored, disinterested behavior is rude.
Contrary to popular belief, this does not make you more likely to get a bid to your top choice. It just makes you rude.
Every chapter worked very hard to put together their Pref parties, so it's very important for PNMs to respect that and at least be polite.
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My daughter would never dream of behaving in such a way, and I hope that my question about being "more reserved" was not construed to mean "behave rudely." She just wanted to know if it was alright to express enthusiasm at a particular house. (and, yes, she realizes that she may not even be invited back.)
The Rho Gammas have instructed them to be very honest this evening, so she will follow their advice.
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