Feeling Misled by Sorority

[MaggieXi]

Its possible that the more social partier types are the one who are more vocal right now, while the actives and new members who may be more shy or reserved are in the background. Since your probably a week to two weeks tops into being a new member, I would give it time to let the dust fall, let everyone get back into the swing of classes and then really see how many people "party" all the time.

Question though, when they are talking about "partying" are the actively mentioning alcohol, or do they mean they just go out a lot? Also, take a look at their overall GPA - if its high, then you know that all the girls can't be out partying all the time!

And there most likely are other sisters who don't drink.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by MaggieXi

Its possible that the more social partier types are the one who are more vocal right now, while the actives and new members who may be more shy or reserved are in the background. Since your probably a week to two weeks tops into being a new member, I would give it time to let the dust fall, let everyone get back into the swing of classes and then really see how many people "party" all the time.

Yes, exactly right. I would also wager the girl who told you all that is a younger member who's just a bit too excited about not being in the youngest pledge class anymore and wants to show off.

Take time to get to know your sisters, and don't feel you have to stick to only your pledge class, the girl chosen as your big sister, or the girls closest to your age. Initiate friendships with girls who have things in common with you, no matter their age.

[JohnnyCash]

Welcome to Greek life. lol