Is she pregnant?

cheerfulgreek · #1 08-13-2009, 01:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Xanthus

I read the posts and I just want to tell all of you thanks for responding. Before I get started, I just have to tell 33girl that when I pmed you, you probably got about 50 of the same messages from me. Haha sorry about that. I didn't know why it wasn't showing message sent. I realized there's an option for that. I was wondering what the hell happened. Anyway, thanks again for your advice.

I know this is a dumb thread, but here, good advice is given so I posted it. According to the pregnancy test she purchased at the store, she's is indeed pregnant. I found out the next morning after I started this thread, I just didn't post because I was and still am pretty bummed out about it. I didn't bring up the fact that it might or might not be mine. Chicks freak at that shit. I don't know how I can bring it up to her that I want to get a blood test after the kid is born. When she told me, she then asked me what I wanted to do. I told her that it's up to her. She freaked and said she was not getting an abortion if that's what I'm thinking. I didn't tell her, but to be quite honest with you, that's what I thought she was talking about. She was talking about us. I don't want to be with her as far as a relationship goes. Yeah, I know, I should have worn a rain coat, but shit happens in the heat of the moment. I didn't have any condoms where we were, and we both thought the pill would work because it worked before. She's a clean girl so I know she doesn't have any stds. I've known her for a while, we were just friends for the longest time, so it's not like I don't know anything about her. Financially, I'm not worried, because I have a decent job. It's just really fucked up knowing I have to deal with her. Before anyone jumps all over me for this, I've already accepted that I brought it on myself. I guess my biggest concern is finding out if it's mine. Kevin, more likely than not, I'll pm you in the future for other questions I know I'll have in regards to this.

Guys thanks again for responding.

Huh? I thought you were going to at least come back and say the condom slipped off or something. You didn't wear one AT ALL. That's so gross. But then again, so are your posts in that TMI thread, so I don't know why I'm surprised. You're really gross and so is she. Bleh!

tld221 · #2 08-13-2009, 01:19 AM

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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

Huh? I thought you were going to at least come back and say the condom slipped off or something. You didn't wear one AT ALL. That's so gross. But then again, so are your posts in that TMI thread, so I don't know why I'm surprised. You're really gross and so is she. Bleh!

way to not be judgemental CG1

cheerfulgreek · #3 08-13-2009, 01:40 AM

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Originally Posted by tld221

way to not be judgemental CG1

Huh? That's not gross to you? Frankly, I don't think I'm being anymore judgemental than any of you. A 30 something year old man posting and laughing about his feces and now he post that he doesn't use a condom with some random girl? If that's not disgusting then I don't know what is.

33girl · #4 08-13-2009, 01:59 AM

I'm not sure if you were aware, but TMI means Too Much Information. TMI - get it? If you don't want to hear about things like that, don't read the thread. I don't.

And read the posts - this is someone he knows well, not a "random girl."

cheerfulgreek · #5 08-13-2009, 06:48 AM

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Originally Posted by 33girl

I'm not sure if you were aware, but TMI means Too Much Information. TMI - get it? If you don't want to hear about things like that, don't read the thread. I don't.

And read the posts - this is someone he knows well, not a "random girl."

I know what TMI means. I'm not sure if you're aware, but STD means Sexually Transmitted Disease-get it?

I said random because he doesn't know what she's been doing. She also doesn't know what he's been doing either. I don't have to go back and read his post to know what he did is not only gross but it's dumb, and I'm not passing anymore judgement than anyone else on this thread.

christiangirl · #6 08-13-2009, 08:18 AM

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Originally Posted by tld221

way to not be judgemental CG1

In the other thread, you called me #1. Can't take it back now.

Dude, I hope you've learned. And I know you guys are friends and know each other, but if you went bareback, you need to be tested and I'm not talking just paternity.

Oh, for whomever it was that asked...you can buy the paternity test kit at the drugstore. It's like $20-30. Then, you send the samples off to a lab with a check for like $130-ish. I thought it was an actual test I was seeing at Rite-Aid, so I read the back of the box--I swear I haven't been testing potential baby daddies.

agzg · #7 08-13-2009, 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

I don't have to go back and read his post to know what he did is not only gross but it's dumb, and I'm not passing anymore judgement than anyone else on this thread.

There's passing judgment and then there's behaving like a 12 year old. You're always so quick to throw personal insults around.

ThetaDancer · #8 08-13-2009, 08:42 AM

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Originally Posted by agzg

There's passing judgment and then there's behaving like a 12 year old. You're always so quick to throw personal insults around.

Yes.

And to the OP, best of luck to you in this situation... And like Kevin said, consider talking to a lawyer.

MysticCat · #9 08-13-2009, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

Frankly, I don't think I'm being anymore judgemental than any of you.

Don't you have some zoo employees to irritate for not knowing enough about the DNA sequences of apes?

Xanthus, sorry you got the news that you got. I'm with Kevin -- there''s no need for any of us to pile on you now. It is what it is, and all you can do is move forward. Kevin has given you some very good advice. Good luck.