Should you "pledge" an Auxiliary Group?

[GraciousLady64]

Even this this is super old, I feel the need to include my opinion. Being a newly initiated member of Iota Sweetheart Auxiliary, I can honestly say that the "beef" is GREATLY exaggerated. Especially by closed minded people. On my campus, which is an HBCU everyone, hearts, frats, and sororities have a mutual respect for each. I was an individual before I was a heart, and honestly only lames really dwell in such nonsense. I have plenty of sisters who are hearts and went on to be AKA's, Deltas, SGRHOS and Zetas, and are very active in BOTH of their orgs. As with any group whether it be by race, class, or any genre...a few individuals can stigmatize a whole group... yet, it should not take away all the good that hearts do. In some cases some hearts do more work than all the sororities combine. Respect is given, when it's received. If you do your research, for every 10 sorors...at least 4 were hearts. That's fact! Even some of the founders of Delta were Alpha Sweethearts....read it in their book In Search of Sisterhood. Please research deligently and chose what's in your heart to do.

[MeezDiscreet]

Originally Posted by GraciousLady64

Even this this is super old, I feel the need to include my opinion. Being a newly initiated member of Iota Sweetheart Auxiliary, I can honestly say that the "beef" is GREATLY exaggerated. Especially by closed minded people. On my campus, which is an HBCU everyone, hearts, frats, and sororities have a mutual respect for each. I was an individual before I was a heart, and honestly only lames really dwell in such nonsense. I have plenty of sisters who are hearts and went on to be AKA's, Deltas, SGRHOS and Zetas, and are very active in BOTH of their orgs. As with any group whether it be by race, class, or any genre...a few individuals can stigmatize a whole group... yet, it should not take away all the good that hearts do. In some cases some hearts do more work than all the sororities combine. Respect is given, when it's received. If you do your research, for every 10 sorors...at least 4 were hearts. That's fact! Even some of the founders of Delta were Alpha Sweethearts....read it in their book In Search of Sisterhood. Please research deligently and chose what's in your heart to do.

Lies.

[libramunoz]

Originally Posted by GraciousLady64

Even this this is super old, I feel the need to include my opinion. Being a newly initiated member of Iota Sweetheart Auxiliary, I can honestly say that the "beef" is GREATLY exaggerated. Especially by closed minded people. On my campus, which is an HBCU everyone, hearts, frats, and sororities have a mutual respect for each. I was an individual before I was a heart, and honestly only lames really dwell in such nonsense. I have plenty of sisters who are hearts and went on to be AKA's, Deltas, SGRHOS and Zetas, and are very active in BOTH of their orgs. As with any group whether it be by race, class, or any genre...a few individuals can stigmatize a whole group... yet, it should not take away all the good that hearts do. In some cases some hearts do more work than all the sororities combine. Respect is given, when it's received. If you do your research, for every 10 sorors...at least 4 were hearts. That's fact! Even some of the founders of Delta were Alpha Sweethearts....read it in their book In Search of Sisterhood. Please research deligently and chose what's in your heart to do.

I don't really say a whole lot, because within this forum, my Soror's tend to TCB! However, YOU are SADLY MISTAKEN!
I don't know who or what you are or are WANTING to be (or even understand your attempt to introduce yourself within this forum), however, I HIGHLY suggest that you take your lies and means of deception outta the Delta Forum!
If you wish to perpetuate these beliefs in YOUR mind, that's fine, but don't make the attempt to do the same here! You are outta your mind if YOU THINK or honestly BELIEVE that this will fly within this forum.
The thread was old and YOU should have kept it that way and just moved on.
Perhaps it is YOU who should re-read the book In Search of Sisterhood, by Soror Giddings and perhaps, your attempts at cognition and understanding will take form, place, and shape, if at all.